*Note: this blog isn't JUST for the side chicks, lol*
What’s up everyone? I
hope everyone had a great Valentine’s Day.
Me personally, my day was just like any other day. I did have a Valentine, we just don’t put too
much into February 14th like other people do. Matter of fact, I’m gonna give you all a few
things to reflect on since Valentine’s Day has come and gone. Some things that might make you say…”hmmmmmm…”
First off,
I know that Valentine’s Day is a day that women like to feel special, but did
your significant other REALLY accomplish that?
Valentine’s Day is a day that everyone goes out and gets teddy bears,
candy, flowers, etc. right? So what did
your partner do for YOU that was different than what others did for their
woman? Here’s the perfect analogy to
describe what I mean (since I love using analogies for some strange reason): If
a school’s principle has labeled a group of kids as the “special” children of
the school (meaning extra SMART) and labeled another group of kids as the OTHER
“special” children (meaning extra SLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW), yet put them in the same
classes with each other, then neither one of those groups will get any
“special” treatment needed for that group.
So if you got a teddy bear and some candy, just like that girl… and that
girl… AND that girl…………and THAT girl, then how special is the gesture? Let’s be real, some of these Valentine Day
gifts were bought at the Swap-O-Rama, gas stations, and I even seen some at a
Mexican Restaurant the other day. If
you REALLY wanna make your girl feel special with the gifts that you get her,
try personalizing them. If you gonna get
her flowers, make sure they are her favorite at least (same with candy). If you gonna get her a teddy bear holding a
heart, try to at least get the heart to have her name on it at least. Jewelry is nice too, so try to engrave her
name on whatever you’re getting her. I’ll tell you one thing women (especially
the “side chicks”), some of you got recycled gifts! That gift wasn’t supposed to
go to you at all. I’ve seen guys buy a
whole bunch of things for “wifey”, but then thought about it… I’m not gonna
give her EVERYTHING, cause I still got this ratchet chick I’m messing with on
the side that I should hook up tomorrow (Side chick day…remember?). Not saying that is how the situation actually
went for some of you, but I’ve seen it before.
If I’m gonna give out any gifts to my girl, I would try to make them as
intimate as possible. Intimate can also
equate to being cheaper too if you play your cards right, so keep that in
mind. Remember, it’s the thought that
counts (so they say).
Some guys
go all out with their affection on the 14th, and now are running on
“E” for damn near the rest of the year.
Sometimes you have to ask yourself
“should Valentine’s Day be THAT drastic of a change from the rest of the
year”? There are some guys that would
rather just break up with their girl either on V. Day or the day before just
because they feel a certain level of pressure to not disappoint (that might be
their excuse, cause sometimes they are just plain C-H-E-A-P). I think if guys
showed a consistent amount of love and affection all year long, then V-Day wouldn’t
be as important to them. For some girls,
V-Day is the only day that they get to brag about their guy…so they live it
up!!! (LOL…ahhh, that’s so sad).
And for all of the side chicks that
got denied yesterday but are getting their deserving attention today, don’t
feel bad at all. See…being a side chick
gives you the opportunity to strive for something. You aren’t number 1 yet… so you got something
to work for! Be optimistic! You might be somebody’s number 1 eventually,
so when you are… be ready! Just remember
to know your role in the situation.
Although he might not love you, he might love something about you: maybe
the way you cook tacos, or how yo a** look in a certain pair of jeans, or even
how that damn pay check be looking ever two weeks. Embrace your inner side chick self, don’t
reject it!
Just remember, just because it’s
not V. Day anymore, it don’t mean that you don’t have to spread the love
anymore. Let your girl know that she is
special every day. Get her gifts and do
stuff for her at random because you love her, not because it’s that time of
year to do so. That’s what love is all
about…with or without Valentine’s Day.
Be blessed everyone!
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